'Khadija was a great teacher'

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  1. abu Hasan

    abu Hasan Administrator

    aysa ummi kis liye minnat kash e ustaz ho
    kya kifayat us ko iqra' rabbuka'l akram nahin?

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    ummi o daqiqah daan e aalam
    be sayah o saayaban e aalam

    صلى الله عليه وعلى آله وأصحابه وسلم
     
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  2. Umar99

    Umar99 Veteran

    Besides the errors that have already been pointed out, it is this mentality that promotes Muslim women to go against shariah and imitate men and kuffar women. You will see them going out of the house without a reason thinking they are equal to men, you will see them working when the husband brings more than enough money home, you will see them mixing with ghair mahram men in their workplaces and travelling for this work and business meetings, completely neglecting her rights towards her husband and children.

    Yes Islam does honour women and it has many rules to ensure that women are kept honoured and protected, yet this doesn't mean that she is identical to a man, Allah has created the two genders and given each different roles and commands according to their natures. Islam honours a woman by giving her the house as a place where she is closest to her Lord, therein she prays and recieves maximum reward and even out of prayer, staying at home she will get reward of a Mujahid. Islam honours a woman by ensuring that she doesn't become an object of desire and eye candy for some male stranger, she is to cover all her body in the times she exists the house due to a need.
    As for Jannah then that is easy for a woman, she just has to make her husband happy and if she dies in that state whilst he is happy with her she will enter Jannah, how easy Allah has made it for them yet it is a shame many women do not understand. They would rather be "free", what is is they are seeking freedom from? From being a slave of Allah? From their husbands who are their paradise or their hell? May Allah guide our women and protect them from the infidel, modernist, feminist influence and help them see the beauty of Islam Ameen.
     
  3. Aqdas

    Aqdas Staff Member

    he sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam only has one teacher: Allah ta'ala.
     
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  4. Aqdas

    Aqdas Staff Member

    but this implies that a Messenger of Allah can be afraid of other than Allah...
     
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  5. chisti-raza

    chisti-raza Veteran

    they don't even know how to talk about the blessed Mothers of the Believers - may Allah Ta'ala be pleased with them.
     
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  6. Aqdas

    Aqdas Staff Member

    I am truly disgusted at the lack of respect of whoever wrote/said that and whoever has been forwarding it.

    they don't even know how to talk about the Messenger sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam!
     
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  7. abu Hasan

    abu Hasan Administrator

    indeed. she is the mother of believers, raDiyAllahu anha.

    siyyama pahli maaN, kahf e amn o amaaN
    Haq guzar e rifaqat pe lakhoN salam.

    she called his attention to who he was (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam).

    Allah ta'ala elevated the Prophet's esteem sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam. and RasulAllah's fear was fear of Allah ta'ala, which is among the attributes of those who are the nearest to Him.

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    see above.

    sub'HanAllah! this jahil is totally ignorant of the jahiliyyah al-uula. he thinks that those times were similar to jahiliyyah of our time where one has to be a slave of women, and flatter them to be considered as a real man!

    this was 1400 years ago. even as recent as 200 years ago, women everywhere - including the west were treated as nobodies.

    and in arabia of 1400 years ago, little girls were buried alive - women were treated as slaves or worse - even as animals. it was the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam who HONOURED women, who gave them honour, who treated them as partners alongside men, who advised battle-hardened, tough men to be kind and nice to women.

    sub'HanAllah, where is this "fear of strong women" in that age? if they did not like a woman, they would just kick them out without any remorse. worse, they would not even divorce them - they would leave them suspended without a divorce (so they could neither marry someone else) nor would they go near them.

    remember always that sayyidah ayishah raDiyallahu anha is a teacher of the ummah, she is greater and superior to generations of men after her - but that does not mean that she is equal or 'tough' (al-iyadhu billah) on the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam. it is simply that the Prophet SallAllahu alayhi wa sallam gave her freedom, and whatever she said raDiyAllahu `anha was in love and fondness - not some sort of 'talking back' that fools tell us.

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    like the author of this SMS being circulated.

    that was because the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam was kind and forgiving. he was a teacher of the world and he taught us how to be patient. indeed, among the mothers of believers (raDiyAllahu `anhunn) they had more privilege than others, but this should not be considered either the flaw of our mothers (as some foolish preachers say). it is just that the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam permitted them - and if he had forbidden them, they would have obeyed him. [refer to the hadith where sayyiduna umar raDiyallahu anhu tried to reproach and he was given a reply]

    bila tashbih, it is said that a king asked his courtiers, how he should treat a person who pulled his beard. most of them said that such a criminal should be hanged. one wise minister said, 'give him sweets'. the king laughed and asked how'd you know? the minister replied: 'who other than a grandson/grand-daughter would dare to pull the king's beard?'

    would you say that the grandson was being impudent with the king? or that the king was not afraid of little children? it is just that it is a privilege enjoyed by the people of the household. [this is only to explain the concept, not as an allegory].

    imam Hasan would ride on the Prophet's back sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam. al-iyadhu billah, how absurd it would look if idiots write: "the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam was not afraid of small children".

    she became who she became raDiyallahu anha because of the company of the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam. may Allah ta'ala forgive us for the sake of her shoes, the dust on which she stepped upon in her shoes. raDiyallahu ta'ala `anhaa.

    it would have been best for this fool if he had just repeated the famous hadith of RasulAllah sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam: "the best amongst you, are those who treat their women best; and i am the best amongst you, in treating women best"

    Allah ta'ala knows best.
     
  8. AbdalQadir

    AbdalQadir time to move along! will check pm's.

    i think such messages are implicit calls to shakhsiyat parasti and running their own cults.
     
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  9. Aqdas

    Aqdas Staff Member

    liars have bad memories.

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    sounds like another one who's trying to please the kuffar.
     
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  10. abu Hasan

    abu Hasan Administrator

    this is similar to abul balaa maududi's claim that the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam was successful because he had faithful saHabah; and wondered whether islam would be successful if RasulAllah sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam did not have such gallant and self-sacrificing companions.

    whoever wrote that passage below is a slave himself. he is afraid of women and out of his fear and insecurity, writes things, which he, in his diseased mind thinks that women appreciate such things.

    sayyidah khadijah learned patience, steadfastness and adab from RasulALlah sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam.

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    next, these idiots will say that sayyiduna abu bakr taught (al-iyadhu billah) the ma'arifah of Allah ta'ala to the master SallAllahu alayhi wa sallam on the day of badr.

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    the companions were given the sharaf, the nobility BECAUSE of the Prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam.

    sab chamak waley ujloN meiN chamka kiye
    andhe shishoN meiN chamka hamara nabi
     
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  11. Abu al-Qasim

    Abu al-Qasim Active Member

    This is wrong on so many levels.
     
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  12. Jonaid202

    Jonaid202 New Member

    Sms which is being fowarded:

    “Khadija was a great teacher; she has such a maqaam in our religion. She taught the Prophet salla’Allahu ‘alayhi wasalam who he was; she was the one who elevated him in his esteem. When he had self doubt she said no. You can see that when the Prophet salla’Allahu ‘alayhi wasalam married Aisha he had no fear of strong women. Theres a lot of men who fear strong women, who want them to be wallflowers. Whereas with the Prophet salla’Allahu ‘alayhi wasalam, that’s not the type of people he encouraged. His wives were women who talked back, and the reason he wasn’t afraid was because khadija was his first wife. She was a women of the world. She knew the world, and she was completely self confident. That’s a sunnah of our Prophet salla’Allahu ‘alayhi wasalam, to elevate women”.
     
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