Shocking, surprising answer from this "Ustadha" and checked and approved by Faraz Rabbani https://seekersguidance.org/answers/general-counsel/virgin/ His concern is about women who committed fornication, and finding a virgin wife TODAY. She says: you can't ask about a past SIN (therefore fornication is what's being referred to). Then she brings in the discussion of Ummahatul Mu'mineen being previously married, but we know they DID NOT COMMIT THAT SIN. This Ustadha appears to do this in an attempt to justify her shaming of him for wanting a woman WHO DID NOT COMMIT ZINA. 2 years in Jordan doesn't make one a mufti.
In summary, Seeker's Guidance (Faraz Rabbani's former org) has a record of giving answers regarding marriage where blame almost always falls on the man, even when something untoward is happening by the woman. Source (Omar Irfan's comment): https://m.facebook.com/SeekersGuida...159336503262318/?type=3&anchor_composer=false