brother noori, this is news to me. as i have mentioned in a related thread, i have always been advised to first learn URDU if i wish to have mastery over arabic. once an 'aalim told me that our urdu-speaking elders down the ages have done such an exhaustive study of the arabic language and the methodologies for teaching it that the resources made available by them to students of the arabic language are not to be found perhaps in any other language!
this is not true that you need to learn urdu first, but rather very absurd idea, do karalites first learn urdu to learn arabic?
I am very unfortunate to see such exhaustive works by our ulama. I have not seen all arabic books in urdu written in the subcontinent, but if there are such books they should not be rare, otherwise our students wouldn't buy deobandi prints. Those, that are available are meant to be taught by teachers, you cannot learn from them on your own, for example tasheel al-sarf and tasheel al-nahw. These are the very first books i bought, but could never understand after few pages. then i bought muallim e arabi 3 volumes by a deobandi teacher of madrasah solatiyyah and printed by al-maktabah al-imdadiyyah makkah but was stuck after few chapters, then i bought and downloaded many other books but nothing worked for me. I don't mean that these books are bad, they would be certainly good for classrom learning, but not for self study.
Though i don't need more books at all but i will be really happy to know if someone can name some good arabic grammer books written in urdu or english and they are readily available, at least i can suggest them to others.
but brother QHR makes a fair point that we should not learn or encourage others to learn from known deviants unless the student is solidly grounded in the aqaid of ahlussunnah. i think Mufti Nizamuddeen has ruled it haram to do so
you too aren't getting it, the whole discussion is about learning on your own with some good and simple to understand books, otherwise there are arabic teachers in our dar al-ulooms, why then one should go anywhere else. But, still there should be only arabic language courses as well, not everybody has time for dars-e-nizami, where those thirsty seakers should go?
i think Mufti Nizamuddeen has ruled it haram to do so
are you sure that he also meant it for a language course? I have a lot of respect for him, and admire his works, but i would really appreciate his fatwa (if it applies to a language course as well) if he also has listed some good sunni books that individuals can use, otherwise hazrat sahab should also work for the remeady rather than only pointing out the disease.
for how can a no so strong person sit in their company, even if only as a student, and not be affected by their beliefs and doubts? the fact that we send children to non-muslim teachers to learn english and other sciences is moot cause they don't come to us with jhubbaas and beards and reciting the kalima and making false claims about the book and the sunnah!
your these two statements are not in agreement with each other. To your later statement it is sufficient to say that there is no guarentee that they will not be effected, you can find ample example of our spoiled childern in the west.
I didn't need to answer every line, but i wanted to clear my point of view, and i hope that i am not making any mistake, otherwise i pray to Allah subhanu wa ta'la to guide me to sirat al-mustaqim.