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these people here are referring to pride being one of the major causes of a life in denial: 9/11 - Cognitive Dissonance.
and we know that is how RasuAllah (sallallahu'alayhiwasallam) defined pride:
'Pride is to look down upon people and reject truth when it is presented to you'.
that explains why so many people keep clinging to deviant aqaid and groups even after truth has been made manifest to them. and only those who look at the evidence not at the presenter i.e they care to follow the truth rather than their preconceptions actually have a change of mind.
For e.x if someone has spent 40 years of his life believing that Thanwi was a saint is told look what he said about RasulAllah(sallallahu'alayhiwasallam) it's expected that he'll feel as if the rug was pulled from under his feet.
Now to save himself from the anxiety and fear and the feeling of having been cheated for so long the first expected reaction is that he'll pounce on the informer himself calling him a lair and slanderer.
But when he is presented with undeniable proofs- he'll either ignore them saying that thanwi was a great man and could never have done that. Implicitly or otherwise he is sure to say, "I refuse to believe that thanwi said that". Which is the easiest way to ignore truth.
The second path that he could take is many times more dangerous: Well, If Thanwi said that, then it must be right. You just don't get it. And he walks away doffing-off is iman by the road-side. Allah be our Refuge!
The third and the most difficult path, that of a mard-e-momin, is to really study the evidence thoroughly and if he can't find anything amiss about it then, Oh boy! its time for a BIG change in beliefs, attitudes and above all your World View. But this is as Allah(The Exalted) says, "This is the fadl of Allah, He grants it to whomever HE wishes, Allah is the granter of fadl-il-'azeem"
O Allah! Show us the truth for what it is and inspire us to follow it
And show us falsehood for what it is and inspire us to abstain from it.
Ameen.
and we know that is how RasuAllah (sallallahu'alayhiwasallam) defined pride:
'Pride is to look down upon people and reject truth when it is presented to you'.
that explains why so many people keep clinging to deviant aqaid and groups even after truth has been made manifest to them. and only those who look at the evidence not at the presenter i.e they care to follow the truth rather than their preconceptions actually have a change of mind.
For e.x if someone has spent 40 years of his life believing that Thanwi was a saint is told look what he said about RasulAllah(sallallahu'alayhiwasallam) it's expected that he'll feel as if the rug was pulled from under his feet.
Now to save himself from the anxiety and fear and the feeling of having been cheated for so long the first expected reaction is that he'll pounce on the informer himself calling him a lair and slanderer.
But when he is presented with undeniable proofs- he'll either ignore them saying that thanwi was a great man and could never have done that. Implicitly or otherwise he is sure to say, "I refuse to believe that thanwi said that". Which is the easiest way to ignore truth.
The second path that he could take is many times more dangerous: Well, If Thanwi said that, then it must be right. You just don't get it. And he walks away doffing-off is iman by the road-side. Allah be our Refuge!
The third and the most difficult path, that of a mard-e-momin, is to really study the evidence thoroughly and if he can't find anything amiss about it then, Oh boy! its time for a BIG change in beliefs, attitudes and above all your World View. But this is as Allah(The Exalted) says, "This is the fadl of Allah, He grants it to whomever HE wishes, Allah is the granter of fadl-il-'azeem"
O Allah! Show us the truth for what it is and inspire us to follow it
And show us falsehood for what it is and inspire us to abstain from it.
Ameen.