i am sure that we have no difference; but this clip within itself was unwarranted - it gives the impression that shaykh asrar is unsure about mawlid.
to some perhaps. to me it gave no such impression.
why except? did i say anything different?
let's not stir the pot when we all agree on the same thing essentially - permissibility and praiseworthiness of Mawlid.
the crux of the matter is this:
there are two things here:
1. permissibility of mawlid itself
2. impermissible actions/munkarat in mawlid celebrations
when we argue with najdis and mawlid-haters, we are talking about the first one. we don't argue about the second point. this is from suyuti's time [husn al-maqsid trans, p15]:
i think there are 3 things here, for our times at least
1. permissibility of mawlid itself (no disagreements. no one asked anyone to stop defending or discussing this)
2. impermissible actions/munkarat in mawlid celebrations (again no disagreements. no one said you like the munkarat or don't speak against them; despite the fact that a lot of scholars sweep this under the rug)
i think Sh Asrar didn't articulate well, but he was probably talking about the third thing
3*. a) the abusers, who
behave like us in defending the permissibility (against wahabis) but really only use that defense as a launchpad to push their own jahl, heresies, fan clubs, and vested interests etc..
b) those who brush the munkarat under the rug (some may not do it, and Hafizdh As-Suyuti certainly didn't, but many many 'scholars' do) and somehow manage to club it together with 'defense of the Mawlid event itself'
c) those who are incompetent and inept in defending Ahlus Sunnah and make us look silly.
the 3rd point is not the same thing as a 40 yr old teenager coming to the mosque or a Mawlid gathering wearing low cut jeans and exposing his backside (a norm again these days) and a maulana correcting him
*PS. i'm not saying any of these apply to the imam Asim who was debating that wahabi cartoon
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you assume that i disagree
actually that "very sorry to say" was for Sunnis in general because of our state of affairs. i didn't assume you disagreed with Sh Asrar on shunning munkarat.
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in which case, you should side with the fatwa of taj al-shari'ah that TV is completely haram, and therefore madani channel should also be stopped.
you didn't get me. qtv is a case of people brushing things under the rug, and not addressing the munkarat properly. as far as female presenters are concerned. they can advise the female presenters to be properly dressed in compliance with the Shari3ah. i could bring in more fiqh points from my meager understanding but we'll leave that for later.
but anyways that's a lesser issue that they have brushed under the rug. the damned elephant in the room is tahir whom they promote.
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in the end what is the summary of your and asrar sahib's position?
we should stop celebrating and defending mawlid and allow 'dawah man' to prance around making faces: "kullu bid'atin dalalah..."?
since most or all of these are mustaHabb actions, just leave them completely and stop discussing their permissibility. end of story.
no. don't stop celebrating.
strike a balance in our approach.
maybe even change the approach to be more effective
list out all of these actions to dawah man and ask him which of these are haram/halal and why, if someone or a group of people do it on their own free will at a time and place of their choosing?
- recitation of qur'an
- dhikr
- a few poems of alahazrat in praise of the prophet (from which some lines were explained to the common public)
- 10-15 minute explanation of the practice of mawlid, objections on it, answers of sunni ulama and the sharayi Hukm
- 1 hour reading from ibn sayyid al-naas: 'nur al-uyun'; a quick summary of the biography of the prophet sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam; highlighting points of about his sunnah, his noble character and certain miracles.
- a 10-15 minute quick Q/A
- dua
- salam
- food
by the same token, ask a couple of Sunni scholars that if all these actions took place in a gathering, and we just didn't call it "Mawlid/Milad", would things be any different?
what if 1 person did only the first 3 actions, and another the next 3, and a third person does the last 3 actions - could each person's individual event be called a Mawlid and/or reward worthy? if not, why not? if yes, why yes?
we need to be against donkeys like this dawah man
we also need to be against a whole truckload of Sufis and juhalaa
we also need to ourselves address genuine issues of munkarat being done, for it is more painful when idiots like this dawah man bring them to our attention.
it applies to any event where munkarat take place. in some cases they are the norm. example, dargah's and all the munkarat that take place there.
i speak only for myself, not Sh Asrar. perhaps he had something totally else in his mind when saying that in that video.
Allah knows best.