i agree with the first mufti saab in the clip
in the past,
at least until 2000, it was us who identified ourselves as Sunnis and Ahlus Sunnah wal Jama3ah - both in india and elsewhere. i know for a fact even in the heart of UP, proper tanatan Ridawis used to insist on using the title of Sunni or Ahlus Sunnah, as opposed to Barelwis.
the wahabis used to call themselves salafi da3wah. it was only after 911 that the khaleeji wahabis hijacked the title of Ahlus Sunnah, devbandis a few years later than them too
wahabi and deobandi were pejoratives we used.
it's ironic (imho) that they've hijacked our rightful approach by calling themselves Sunnis and we are gradually backing off (not from Sunniyat itself, but using the right labels)
i prefer to use the title of Sunni/Ahlus Sunnah coupled with Maslake Ala Hazrat or Maslake Raza for sectarian or intra Sunni identification (Hanafi Qadri Ridawi), rather than just the short cut of Barelwi, which implies the same thing - because i know the title will not sit well with some other Sunnis too (in our times) due to peer politics, as is evident from the Ridawi, Chishti, Ashrafi, Sabri, Naqshbandi etc salasil peerzada politics. yes, ideally peer politics is anti-tasawwuf and anti-Sunni, but we need to look at and deal with the real world. peer politics between various aastanas is a reality of the present day and in such circumstances using the Barelwi title only causes us to be more isolated and insular, and also fragments the desi and/or broader Sunni community.
i only prefer to use the Barelwi title inside india, if needed circumstantially, to distinguish ourselves from devbandis or wahabis. not even in pakistan
another thing is some brothers insist that because we are desis and Sunnis, we ought to talk the talk and walk the walk and call ourselves what we are - Barelwis. we dare not undo our (supposed) desiness!
firstly - how long is it before those of us born and raised outside the subcontinent, can rid ourselves of the 'desi' or 'subcontinental' label? what's the cutoff timeline? or are our generations to come also destined to be identified as desis/subcontinentals till judgement come?
we have Syeds, Siddiquis, Ansaris, Farooqis, who have Arab ancestry, Baigs who have Turkish ancestry (i think), and so many others who are from central Asia and Afghanistan etc. it was apparently a fair deal when all those "invaders" as the hindus cry, started identifying themselves as ethnically hindustanis after a couple of generations.
other European Muslims like Albanians, Kosovans, Bosnians etc. identify as Turks in the 2nd or 3rd generations if their fathers/grandfathers migrated there. they of course don't deny their ancestry or heritage, but identify as Turks. same with some "Malays" and "Indonesians" whose ancestors actually migrated from Yemen. i know many Syrians who actually have Turkish, Russian, Kurdish etc. heritage but don't identify as such and have assimilated into Syrian Arabic language and culture.
so what's the cutoff time limit before we stop identifying as desi/subcontinental and its associated baggage, or what's the criteria? or is that door shut? do "Deccan" people from
Barkas still have a chance of being
identified as Yemenis (not just claiming ancestry/heritage) again if they ever move to Yemen or are we bound to call them Hyderabadi? i have relatives in Karachi whose parents were Tamil Muslim migrants to Pak, but they don't know a word of Tamil, and i probably eat more Tamil food than them. do they have the license to call themselves "Urdu-speaking" as they do?
like most people on the forum, i have met a whole lot of people (desis) born and raised in Middle East, Australia, New Zealand, UK, Canada, USA, Germany, Holland, Uganda, Kenya, South Africa, Mauritius, Fiji etc. they range from 3rd generation people still holding on to Urdu shayari, and desi food and clothing, to those who only have Islam (or Islamic names), the ancestry and brown skin and nothing more. even with kafirs, you see sikhs who are settled in the west since 1850s and still hold on to their language, food and traditions, to hindus from Fiji whose language, food, and clothing is an unrecognizable mishmash of a bunch of things desi and nondesi.
it's not about trying to act western white or black; or western or eastern Arab, or a pacific islander. it's about being ourselves.
in the case of many many "subcontinentals" who don't have any or very little connection to Urdu, a necessity to understand the Barelwi-deobandi issue, it's not just futile,
but rather counter-productive to use any title other than Sunni or Ahlus Sunnah. outside of the subcontinent, it should be
this demographic that should be considered as the
default "subcontinental/desi" demographic.
just my 2 cents. i don't have anything against anyone who doesn't agree. Allah knows best.