harvard recommends muraqabah

[abu Hasan]

https://hbr.org/2017/12/how-are-you-perceived-at-work-heres-an-exercise-to-find-out?

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i suppose scholars, pirs and other celebrity figures should try this once in a while. and of course, this group of feedback providers should include at least one cynic.

like, you-know-who...

 

[abu Hasan]

but on second thoughts, people are already aware of their shortcomings - it is just that they don't want to acknowledge them - or attempt to conceal them.

nas'alu Allaha al-aafiyah.