salam.
Jazak Allahu khaira hazrat abu hasan for all you efforts
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here also if the person hesitates fearing he may be making a mistake in doing takfir - and refers to a mufti, it is not "doubting". rather, it is "waiting for clarification"
Note: the following question is not regarding famous kufr sareeh such as tahrif ul qur'an, or finality of prophethood etc, but rather about statements of an individual.
Sorry again for so many cross questions. But a lot of the times, I have seen contradicting opinions from ulama regarding the takfir of someone. For example:
i) in dawat e islami farz uloom course, they said that the one who believes in khalq ul qur'an, according to us he is a kafir. Then I found out that this is kufr luzumi.
ii) From what I understood after reading the thread on tajsim is what to say that "Allah has a limbs but unlike the creation" is explicit kufr. But in zia al aqaid of mufti qasim zia sahab, it says it is kufr luzumi.
iii) I read that if one's parents died murtad then to read the dua which is normally read in salah is also kufr, but then Mufti akmal sahab said that with the intention of quoting, it is not kufr.
iv) Muzoor Muhaddis e kabeer said that tahir ul qadri is a kafir (I believe he also said that to doubt his kufr is kufr) but a mufti sahab (I will not name him but he is a senior mufti who is considered reliable by all scholars in england, he is from Pakistan but lives in england) takfir is not done of him, only tazleel. I asked him in urdu.
vi) Allama khr sahab said that imran khan's statement that "Allah ke habeeb (sallallahu alaihi wa alihi wasallam) the. Lekin kitni mukhkilat ka samna karna pada. Logon ne mazak kia, zaleel kia, ostracize kia" is sareeh toheen. I asked the mufti sahab above and he said "it is not kufr but one should be cautious of one's wording" (though I don't think he knew about Allama khadim hussain rizvi sahab's video on this matter or that the one who said it was Imran khan). I asked him in urdu and he replied in urdu
vii) And then recently, the issue of Hazrat maryam being a prophet.
I am very anticipated for your answer on this matter. Since after waiting for clarification from a Mufti sahab, we are not allowed to doubt it being kufr, but it has happened to me so much that some scholars have said something to be kufr sareeh (or at least given this impression) and later on I find that, No it is not kufr sareeh. So, even if one thinks they have certianty in a kufr said by an individual, internally (would they willing to bet their life on that being kufr due to these past instances) since what if in the near future, it turns out that it wasn't kufr and he has been calling someone a kafir wrongly. If one is not willing to bet their life on something being kufr (or be bravely willing to say that "May the curse of Allah be upon me if zayd is not a kafir") due to certianty and another person being a kafir due to a Mufti's fatwa, then how can he claim to have yaqeen.
As a way of summary, if one hears zayd say something wrong and a mufti sahab say that this is kufr sareeh. It could be possible that later on he hears about an opinion that this is not kufr. What should one do in this scenario since one is suppose to pay utter most caution whilst doing takfir?