my original question was in the refutation forum but it has now come to the language notes.
the reason it was in the refutation is because there was once a debate between manzoor ahmad nu'mani and mawlana hashmat ali lakhnawi rahimahullah.
manzoor said, "do you know who i am? i am manzoor which has 5 letters and i am a munazir which has 5 letters".
since mawlana hashmat ali was very present minded and could refute any deobandi argument with his genius intellect he at once replied, "you are not munazir, you are munazara (feminine) because manzoor and munazara have the same abjad value!"
to this, manzoor had no reply. mawlana hashmat ali said i am the munazir (masculine) and you the munazara (feminine).