I read the book when you'd linked to it some time back but it will require careful study before we can start using the techniques listed in there. Perhaps someone can make an app where you fill in the form and it tells you what games people play...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Games_People_Play_(book) i first read this book many years ago; and other books by berne: beginner's guide to psychoanalysis and what do you say after you say hello. as usual, i may not agree with everything he says, but one will be surprised to learn how much one can identify with... https://archive.org/details/TheGamesPeoplePlay PDF link: https://archive.org/download/TheGamesPeoplePlay/TheGamesPeoplePlay.pdf ---- edit: i had erroneously mentioned foundations of social psychology as eric berne's work. the book i have is by edward jones and harold gerard.